For those of you wondering what on earth this "afternoon of games and merriment" thing is on your invitation for Friday, I figured I'd give a little detail.

As everyone who lives in the U.S. and has ever watched television knows, even the most independent, feminist women have certain fantasies about their wedding day -- even if they deny it adamantly. My fantasies have never tended towards the ponies or the princess-y (though I have to admit that wearing a tiara has always sounded like a bridal requirement to me) but I have always known that I wanted a fun rehearsal dinner/day ahead of time. I like the idea of everyone getting to know each other before the wedding. I like the idea of elentybillion toasts. (Start working on yours now!) I like the idea of a casual, relaxed day to get you in the mood for the wedding weekend.

So! When my friends Karen Zacarias and Rett Snotherly went to a destination wedding several years ago where there was a "groom's challenge" the day before the wedding in which guests played games, matched wits, and generally goofed off, I knew I wanted the same.

We have three hours set aside for the traditional -- i.e., three-legged races -- and the less-so:

• love-poetry reading contests
• found object art contests
• Steve and Karen trivia games
• and the finale: a Karen and Steve head-to-head "Newlywed Game" with questions posed by you

We'll also have some simple crossword puzzles and other sitting games too. It will all be in a lovely backyard (or under a tent if it rains). Kids are invited. Food and lemonade will be served -- and we can't wait to see you there!

posted by Karen @ 10:23 AM